Just because…

If you are a regular visitor to this blog, for the past few days, we have been having some pretty serious stuff on here. Sorry about that. Sometimes, there are questions that you have to ask yourself, and decisions to be made. I choose to do that publicly sometimes. Anyway, I came across this song, and I thought it was appropriate in a way for what we have been talking about.


8 thoughts on “Just because…

    • Thanks Sage. I hope so. It is one of those things that we don’t really think about enough. Let’s you and I change the world. There has got to be a way. I’ve already commited to starting a church and starting a cult with some other bloggers, but I haven’t found someone who can help change the way that everyone looks at life, and you seem like a pretty good choice.

    • Thanks. I’m not much of one either, but EG, Joe, and a few others have inspired me. I’m actually listening to the radio now, which is weird, but I think I get more done.

  1. “….someone who can help change the way that everyone looks at life” . . .

    Boy, that’s asking a LOT!! Considering everyone has different lives . . . different experiences . . . do you want them to all see it like YOU? Or do you envy their outlook and wish it was in you?

    One thing (and a bitter lesson to be sure) that we learned is that you gotta be happy within (and without sometimes) yourself. Happiness comes from inside. It’s not about love, or benefiting others, or any of that nonsense. It’s not even about finding “Meaning” in life. It’s just about not being sad all the time – and learning to look at things in a different light.

    Easy to say; lot harder to do. We’ve been working on this thing since we’ve been “13” (the personality) and “21” (the age and sort of person we were when we figured out that we hadn’t gotten a clue as to how to be happy sometimes.) And we sort of did it without ‘love’ – thinking it was unattainable. Not that we couldn’t love others; just we learned not to expect anyone to ever love us – EVER – and then started learning how to be happy with that.

    Beleive it or not, it can be done . . . it’s just sort of lonely. (and that’s about when I got adopted into another family . . . and learned I was wrong. About the love thing. Meaning that I could be loved by someone outside of ‘me’).

    Go figure . . . just when you get it ‘right’ – everything goes ‘wrong’ – only in this case . . . we wonder sometimes: was it for the better?
    I guess so. We got a daughter out of this. But we lost a family (that same one) in time.

    Crazy dayz/daze, huh.

    • Totally crazy daze, but today is a lot better than yesterday. I think I was stuck in overanalyzer hell for a bit. I am just glad that everything, including my mind, seems lighter today. I am still thinking a lot about life, love, faith, happiness, etc. I am just taking it slowly today. Thanks for dropping in.

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