Only honest answers please, I get enough bullshit to disdain it here. (Most of the time 😉 ).
Which is worse, having a severe disability, or caring for someone with one?
In other words:
Wiping someone’s ass, or needing someone to wipe yours?
Being in constant pain, or the helplessness of watching someone you love endure constant pain.
Moments when you wish for death…I guess that applies to both caregiver and the invalid.